How to Plan a Friendsgiving

If you’re wondering how to plan a Friendsgiving and have absolutely no clue where to start, don’t worry, I’ve got you.

As someone who’s hosted quite a few Friendsgivings over the past few years; I can promise you one thing: hosting doesn’t have to be stressful or expensive. Honestly, some of my favorite Friendsgiving memories came from the simplest ideas.

Whether you’re picturing a Friendsgiving table dinner, a fun themed potluck, or a casual night packed with games and activities, there are so many ways to make your Friendsgiving feel special. The best part? You can totally make it fit your group’s vibe and your budget.

Ready to start planning? Let’s get into it.

How to Plan a Friendsgiving 

Start with a Little Inspiration

Before you start buying decorations or planning the menu, spend a little time gathering inspiration for your Friendsgiving party. Trust me, it makes everything so much easier.

Scroll Pinterest, save a few TikToks, or browse some Friendsgiving ideas to see what catches your eye. Maybe you’ll fall in love with a color palette. Discover a Friendsgiving party theme you never thought of. Or find the cutest decor that you want to recreate.

And remember, Friendsgiving doesn’t have to look exactly like Thanksgiving.

Sure, you can host a traditional dinner with all the classic comfort foods. But you can also switch things up with fun party themes, creative potlucks, DIY food bars, interactive games, and activities that keep everyone entertained all night long.

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How Many People Are You Inviting?

Once you’ve got a vision for your party, it’s time to figure out your guest list.

This one decision will influence almost everything else, from where you’ll host your Friendsgiving to how much food you’ll need and even what activities make the most sense.

If you’re inviting just your closest group of friends, hosting at home is usually the easiest option. It feels cozy, personal, budget friendly, and gives everyone plenty of time to relax.

Planning a bigger gathering? You may want to look into renting a community room, reserving a pavilion at a local park, or finding another space that gives everyone enough room to spread out.

Your guest count also helps you decide how to handle the food.

You can cook everything yourself; order catering; but if you want to save money and make things easier, a potluck is always a win! Everyone gets to contribute their favorite dish. Which means less work for you and more delicious food for everyone.

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Where Should You Host Your Friendsgiving?

Now comes one of the most exciting parts, picking the location.

You could transform your apartment into the coziest fall dinner party. host everyone in your backyard (depending on the weather, this might not be ideal especially if it’s chilly). Reserve a picnic pavilion at a local park. Or rent an event space if you’re planning something a little bigger.

I’ve actually used many of these locations for my Friendsgivings.

One year, my friend and I hosted it at her apartment. And another year we rented an indoor space at a local park. The park gave us plenty of room for decorating, games, and everyone to spread out without feeling cramped.

The only downside? Rental spaces usually come with a time limit, which means you’ll have to set up, celebrate, and clean everything up before your reservation ends.

Hosting at home gives you a little more freedom. You can chat for hours, play “just one more game,” and not have to worry about someone telling you it’s time to leave.

When Should You Have Your Friendsgiving?

Before sending out the party invitation, check in with your friends and see what everyone’s holiday schedule looks like.

A lot of people travel for Thanksgiving or already have family plans, so picking your Friendsgiving date early gives everyone a better chance of making it.

I usually recommend hosting during the first or second week of November. It’s close enough to Thanksgiving to get everyone in the fall spirit but early enough to avoid most holiday conflicts.

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Plan Your Menu

Okay…now for everyone’s favorite part. The food!!!

Do you want to keep things classic with a traditional Thanksgiving spread? Or would you rather go with “non-traditional” thanksgiving foods?

You could host a potluck where everyone brings a dish. Or, if you want to provide all of the food, you can cook or order catering/takeout. 

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Friendsgiving Party Decorations

When it comes to your Friendsgiving party decorations, let your party theme lead the way. Decorating is so much easier when you already have a vision for the overall vibe you’re going for.

For example, if you’re hosting a sit down Friendsgiving dinner, make your tablescape the star of the show. A cute tablecloth, matching plates, fall inspired centerpieces, candles, and pretty place settings can instantly make the meal feel extra special. Without requiring a ton of decorations throughout the room.

Hosting a “Taco Bout Friendsgiving” party instead? Lean into the theme! Think bright colors, festive banners, colorful balloons, and taco themed decorations, to make the whole party feel like a fiesta. 

You can also decorate your space with balloon garlands, create a photo booth backdrop,Friendsgiving banner, or display photos of you and your friends. Little touches like string lights, pumpkins, and fall leaves can also help create a warm and welcoming atmosphere.

If you’re not sure where to start, spend some time browsing online and Pinterest (ps.. click here to follow me on Pinterest 🙂 for decor ideas. Looking at different color palettes, tablescapes, and party setups is one of the easiest ways to gain ideas and figure out what fits your style.

Plan Some Fun Activities

Once you’ve figured out the food and location, it’s time to think about what everyone will actually do during the party.

Even if your group loves chatting for hours, having a few activities planned helps keep the energy going and gives everyone something fun to jump into.

You could sing your hearts out during karaoke, play Thanksgiving This or That, test everyone’s knowledge with Thanksgiving trivia, compete in Minute to Win It games, or watch a show/movie.

If your group is more laid back, set out a deck of cards, board games, or a thankful jar where everyone can write down things that they’re grateful for.